Ignore The Guy To Get The Guy

Do you ignore someone to bring them closer?

Stop putting people specifically your boyfriend in a pedestal. Your Ex has their own flaws which you struggle to notice for what they are consequently you put him in a pedestal. Your ex was once your boyfriend and now after the break up you still have unrealistic expectations on him. How can you be able to move on considering that he is now no longer in life yet you are not even sure you want him back. Ignore the guy to get the guy. Focus on other things, have interests which you enjoy doing besides relationship with now ex. For example, exercises, hobbies, reading a book you love, watching a movie or a documentary etc.

Ex contacts you

He might reach out or he might not reach out, we cant tell for sure. If does contacts you and you decide to respond to them. Consider that it will depend on what you are getting from them. If it’s a positive experience, no problem! you can respond to him.  Negativity or something you don’t want for instance, they are being nasty, emotionally unavailable, mean then you correct the believe about yourself that is okay with this behavior.

Believes

We have to have self respect enough to not allow this kind of conduct in our life. Are you okay with attracting these kinds of people?. What believes do you have about men? What are you projecting out?. For example, if you experience absence of a person in your life, then change the believes that they are never around. More believes for instance, they never contact me, I am not a priority, I don’t matter, I am not important to them, they don’t want me in their life, I must been not good enough, there is something wrong with me. These negative vibrations will attract similar energy. If your mind carries a heavy burden of past, you will experience more of the same.

How to correct negative believes

Start correcting these unconscious beliefs within yourself, change them to what you want and desire to experience in your life.

I love how they contact me, how our conversation flows. Feeling the closeness within us is something I enjoy. We understand each other which is amazing. The kindness they extend to me is something I love and I extending kindness to them. We understand each other better every day. When something doesn’t go well we can overcome  it because we have good trust. We have a good understanding and the more I work on myself the better the relationship is. Living in the end as Neville Goddard states. You can even write them down, journal them.

Ignore the guy to get the guy

Don’t ignore your specific person or put them up in a pedestal either. Have a series of activities for your life, things you love, do you, do affirmations as stated previously. Imagine, create a scene about how lovely your relationship is and create a give and take a free flow between the two of you. If they make the effort to call or connect with you don’t ignore them. Be open, inviting, kind, gracious, be dignified and reciprocate because they are stepping towards you so step towards them. No need to apply no contact as things are actually moving towards something more positive. Decide “I am going to enjoy the connection and being together whether it is through phone calls and text conversation”.