How can I make him fall inlove with me?

Men and falling inlove

Men fall inlove with a woman because she does in some subtle ways “complete him” however, mostly he falls for a woman because he recognizes she doesn’t really need him. And in that discovery, he understands her strength, the power that he can add to his own in the relationship. That is how a relationship develops and becomes resilient and authentic.  Not through deception and manipulation, but through the growth of your strengths and gifts. Do not criticize, condemn or complain it’s a sign of disrespect. Don’t put the man in a pedestal, shift your mindset. Stop trying to make something happen especially initiating contacts, making plans, it makes you sound too eager and “thirsty”.

How does he fall in love with me

Stop always initiating communications it’s a form of over-contacting. Having him in your life means you let him invest in you. Let him do small favours for you for example fixing that car, and other things that take energy. Allow him to invest his time, effort and energy on you and allow yourself to enjoy his investment. Prioritize your needs and put yourself first. Explore your hobbies or pick new hobbies, have a life of your own with interesting activities. A man will respect you for having your own life and he will not feel like you look for him only to make you happy but rather you pursue the relationship with mutual benefits.

Will focusing on a man make him fall inlove with you?

Take your focus off this man and put it to yourself. Focusing on having interests that you enjoy doing and which you can do alone. You had a life before this man came into your life.This means you need to continue focusing on the interests you had developed before meeting this man. Feel love for yourself and radiate it out to your specific person. Feel being yourself and being emotionally available. Some meditations that can help is doing the mirror exercise “I am wanted, I am loved, I am secure”. When you realize that you don’t need anyone else to love you other than yourself, true love shows up. Do the inner work so that you don’t attract unhealthy situations over and over again.

Do you have Standards?

Challenge him by stating your standards and become the best version of yourself and he will respect you for that. Don’t settle for less. Know the first person you need to fall inlove with is yourself. That means you should not allow toxic behavior because you want to have someone in your life. Get to know him on a personal love. Ask about his thoughts or opinions it shows respect and interest. Consider alignment: do you get him?, do you understanding one another?, do you share the things you believe?. Make incredible amazing memories together and combine with life long memories. People will do anything for those who encourage their dreams, justify their failures, allay their fears, confirm their suspicions and help throw rocks at their enemies. Be that person to your man.